The Joy of Human Bondage
If I could turn back the clock, would I have chosen the attractive offer of a scholarship attachment in Psychology Medicine overseas? I felt very fortunate and honoured to be selected for that prestigious award. It would have certainly enhanced my career path. Surprisingly, I have eventually rejected that offer. Was this decision my life's greatest regret?
It has happened in 2020, when my mum became wheelchair bound after a nasty injury. She was devastated and depressed. Being her sole child, I couldn't have heartlessly left her during that crucial time to chase my own dreams.
Henceforth, I have lost the opportunity to capture the goose that laid the golden eggs in my career development. Nevertheless, I live with no regrets because that 2 years of close bonding with mum was worth all sacrifices. With my mum I have learnt to face and overcome difficulties, and, to experience the joy of human bondage. In conclusion, I believe that it is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.
It has happened in 2020, when my mum became wheelchair bound after a nasty injury. She was devastated and depressed. Being her sole child, I couldn't have heartlessly left her during that crucial time to chase my own dreams.
Henceforth, I have lost the opportunity to capture the goose that laid the golden eggs in my career development. Nevertheless, I live with no regrets because that 2 years of close bonding with mum was worth all sacrifices. With my mum I have learnt to face and overcome difficulties, and, to experience the joy of human bondage. In conclusion, I believe that it is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.
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doctorpot1 : agreed, time lost is something that can never be replaced. money and prestige can always be earned back later, but once time have passed it is not coming back.
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The Daily Muse : I'm so sorry for your mum's loss and your own too. That is a lot of grief to carry. I know family pain and loss well, and all I can say is that you must keep pushing forward. There is nothing more important than taking care of our loved ones in such a terrible situation. Please be proud of yourself for being clever enough to have such an opportunity and proud for choosing your mum like she cared for you.
HuatLady OP The Daily Muse : My heartfelt appreciation for your kind understanding and words of encouragement.
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HuatLady OP doctorpot1 : Thanks doctorpot 1 for your very thoughtful advice. It's reassuring for me to have like-minded people in the Moomoo Community.