A young man asked me: After looking at my recent operations, where do you think the difference lies between my approach and yours? I replied: I pursue low difficulty, something I can handle but others may look down on, operations with strong comprehensibility and simple execution; you pursue high difficulty, rich in temptation and fantasy, operations that ordinary people can't achieve and even experts need luck to avoid mistakes. I like to make money from stocks with development potential but have already experienced a large decline, while you like to make money from high-flying stocks.
I heard a doctor at the mental hospital say that male patients want to achieve great things, while female patients want to be loved. Male patients who trade are looking to double their profits or achieve perpetual motion, while female patients who trade just buy and hold onto stocks.
Most people are forever asleep in their dreams, unable to awaken in their lifetime.
The skill in the stock market exists in two aspects, one is mindset, and the other is professional skills. Professional skills are not difficult, as long as you are willing, you will be able to learn. The difficulty lies in the mindset, in what extent. Even if you can describe the trend of a stock (which has been proven by future events), even if you can see the trades in your account, the results turn out to be completely different (this has happened multiple times). Sometimes, even if you have invincible skills, you cannot save the person you want to save. Good words cannot save a damned ghost, can it?
True ownership is like a flower that blooms forever in the heart, not a withered branch tightly held in the hand. I think, whether it's wealth, love, or holding onto stocks, one should have such enlightenment and clarity. Otherwise, one will be obsessed and sometimes even affect and disgust family and others. The hope in life should be a spiritual state, and does not need to be bestowed by specific material possessions (including people). This is also the excellence of Fan Li compared to Wen Zhong. Can you understand?
To remain calm in the face of change, to grieve without hurting oneself, to be joyful without losing shape, achieving this is the greatest accomplishment in being human. Only when one truly matures can they see through and experience the secrets of love and life. In the face of life's setbacks, most of the time, it is you who reject yourself rather than others rejecting you. What is the secret of life? It's not easy to explain, but let me put it this way, although everyone has to walk their own path, the roads others have walked in the past and the one they are walking now can be a mirror for us. Having a mirror requires effective targeted action. Do you agree?
The fourth awakening of a person.
1. I found that reading books is really useful. The purpose of reading is not to achieve great success, but to provide you with inner strength when life knocks you back to your original form and you find yourself stuck in the mud.
The more you read, the more you understand that there are rules behind everything in the world, and your attitude towards many things is calm and enlightened. In fact, a person is lonely in this lifetime. Only books can enrich your spiritual world and accompany you through the long years.
When you understand the lows, you need to swallow complaints and swallow grievances. The bottom of the valley where a person falls is often the starting point of their success. Many times, only when there is no turning back, will there be a way out. Only in the darkest place can one see where the true light is.
Understand that all blessings actually come with a price. Those things that are fortunately obtained will eventually make us pay the corresponding price someday. In life's journey, only by letting go of luck and being down-to-earth can one achieve success and happiness.
Having self-awareness, it is never too late for anything. With self-awareness, one can be content and choose the right path, knowing one's shortcomings and seeking improvement. Only when the direction is correct can one strive harder and be luckier. Everyone has a period of awakening, but whether it happens early or late determines one's destiny. The silkworm awakens to become a butterfly, and the fish awakens to become a Peng. The awakening of adults allows us to seize opportunities and achieve dreams in life.