I adopted a difficult and cranky, but artistic and soulful (human) survivor of the Indian Residential School system who -- like Intel Corporation -- was born during the 1960's. He's a member of the Navajo Nation and a diabetic. He worked very hard to win me over when we met, which was right before the scope of the pandemic was becoming known in early 2020. He worked harder than any man that has ever pursued me to win me over; today he is my rez husband. His mother "Alice" (not her native name) is my good friend. When I use the word "we", I am referring to all of us, to our family which includes his mom, siblings, his children birthed by women who are "not me" long ago, and his grandsons -- we have family and cats both "on rez" and "off rez".