Women.

Have you noticed,
Whether a romantic relationship will happen between men and women,
Actually, it mainly depends on women,
As long as a woman is willing,
A man can enter anytime, anywhere,
But if a woman does not want to,
Even if a man tries his best,
It will all be in vain,
When a man flirts with a woman,
If the woman does not respond,
Then basically there is no hope for the two.
No matter how hard a man tries,
No matter how sweet the words are,
No matter how attentive he is,
If a woman does not take the initiative,
there will not be a later story between two people,
At the beginning of a relationship,
women are often passively accepting,
once there is a response,
That means women are trying to accept.
Slowly starting to acknowledge the man in front of them.
So,
Don't think that when two people have a relationship,
It means the woman is innocent,
and forced by the man.
Actually,
women are the true manipulators in this relationship.
She wants to be with you,
She will hint to you,
Give you a response,
If she doesn't want to be with you,
You are invisible in her eyes.

So most girls easily encounter scumbags or less ideal conditions, because girls now follow their feelings, rely on their own frequency to find partners to date. Unfortunately, mature men who understand women are hard to find, and mature men might not necessarily attract you.